Robert J. Obenour

Robert J. Obenour, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and friend, passed away on March 30, 2026, at the age of 81.

Born in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, Robert carried his roots with pride throughout his life, remaining a loyal and passionate Steelers fan to the very end. His early years were marked by both hardship and resilience, having lost his father at a young age—a loss that helped shape the grit, independence, and strength of character that defined him.

Robert was married for 60 years to the love of his life and best friend, Dorothy Obenour. Together, they built a life centered on devotion, partnership, and shared adventure. His career in sales took them across the country and around the world through achievement clubs, creating lasting memories and experiences they treasured deeply.

He was the proud father of three daughters: Laura (Randy) Davis, Amy, and Gail, whom he loved fiercely and supported wholeheartedly. Robert also found great joy in his grandchildren, Cole Davis and Audrie Davis, who brought him immense pride and happiness.

Known for his warm smile, unmistakable determination, and willingness to help in any situation, Robert was a man who spoke his mind and stood his ground. Beneath that tough exterior, however, was a deep well of loyalty, humor, and care for those he loved.

Robert found peace and satisfaction in the simple, meaningful rhythms of life. He loved birds, flowers, and maintaining a beautiful yard, taking pride in every home he and Dorothy shared—each one marked by a workbench he built with his own hands. He also had a special fondness for his three Labrador retrievers over the years.

A man of many interests, Robert was a good golfer, an avid reader, skilled card player, a sharp and intuitive picker of winning NFL teams, and an enthusiastic participant in family vacations. He dedicated his time to coaching his daughters in softball and leading them in Indian Princesses, leaving a lasting impact on their lives and the lives of others.

In his retirement years, Robert also gave back to his community through volunteer work with Duplin County Department of Social Services and Novant Hospital, quietly offering his time and energy in service to others.

He will be remembered for his strength, his steadfast love for his family, his enduring partnership with Dorothy, and the legacy of resilience and devotion he leaves behind. Robert’s life was one of determination, loyalty, and deep connection—a life well lived and one that will be remembered and cherished.

In keeping with Robert’s wishes, there will be no formal funeral service. His family will gather privately to honor and celebrate his life. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that donations be made in his memory to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation.